It is
with heavy heart that I’m writing this post. What a shock to know my darling
Mofe Duncan's marriage has crashed. I am lost for words. This is one crash
too many. What on earth could have caused this?
The news
of Mofe's marriage crash filtered in the air days ago and I was hoping to hear
them debunk the news but alas, it was true. This is not the first time a
Nollywood marriage is crashing and when they do, people like to associate it
with one thing or the other.
Let me
state that, marriage has no antidote, each according to their own. The sweetest
loving couple today may end up sworn enemies tomorrow and we have seen this
severally. When this happens, people wonder why it happened.
Like
i said, there is no better way to a successful marriage. Marriage is work
in progress 247. What works for Mr A may not work for Mr B. This is not to say
that there are no rules one may follow to better understand what marriage is
all about but the point i am trying to make is that marriage is the
responsibility of both parties involved. Couples should decide how they want
your marriage to be then mould it that way.
It comes
with challenges no doubt but there is no challenge the power and conviction of
two people who really want to be together as one cannot surmount.
Marriage
takes patience, love, trust, understanding, tolerance, support, prayer, arguments
and sometimes fighting and many more you may not know until you make that bold
step to marry and start living with your partner.
The truth
is that, a lot of people live in denial of these facts. I am sure no one wishes
to encounter such in marriage but the question is, do we really do what we
ought to be doing as married people?
Some
people physically live with their partners but in their minds they are
somewhere else. People get married and due to challenges and pressure, they
forget all the promises and fantasies they had before marriage.
Patience
is virtue, so we must be patient even in the midst of a challenge if we truly
want to have a lasting marriage
Remember,
no one will come and make it that heaven you envisaged before we got married
but you.
A stitch
in time they say saves nine.
God bless
every married couple in the house who are holding out.
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